Everyone would like to love and be loved. Spending another year with your partner being happy would make you feel good and healthy. So in this year of the tiger, I would like to give you 5 tips on how to pump up your love life.
1. No to over analyzing.
This means stop thinking that your guy is with another girl because he has not been replying to your texts in three minutes. Remember! Some guys don’t always check on their phones.
2. Expectations should be realistic.
No one is perfect; so stop demanding for perfection. When your partner upsets you because he hasn’t called you every 5 minutes, like duh! He’s a person not a robot. If you want your relationship to be healthier, stop trying to change your mate instead accept them as they are.
3. Communication: An essential tool to every relationship.
Not only letting your mouth works, but most especially letting your ears and heart work. Real talking/communicating entails genuinely listening with your ears and heart. It also involves being taking time to be physically present in order to observe the nonverbal cues. Asking questions and clarifying things is also important to understand each other. And lastly, share information, views and opinions in a non-threatening manner. Surely, the next thing you know, you’re on the bed putting your words into actions.
4. Have a fair fight.
Since we are all different, there could be misunderstandings in some point of our relationship. Some conflict is healthy to spice up your love life and when you’re in that situation, have a fair fight. Take time to hear each others side. Don’t assume, criticize and hold grudges; this could not only destroy your partner but also destroy your outlook in life. Have a win-win situation through negotiating. However, if you think your mate deserves to be dump because he/she is acting stupid (like being insensitive and arrogant at what you’re saying) then go! Bitch him/her out. You don’t deserve this kind of person.
5. The special ingredient: Love yourself.
Spend time to read your favorite book, watch your favorite show and have a drink or coffee with your buddies. If you love yourself, you could also spread your love others.
Make this your guide to your relationship, because there’s no other way to spend another year with your partner than to pump up your love life.
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